This Memorial Website was created in the Memory of Our Beloved Son, Brother and Friend, Seneca Charles Miceli, who was born in Libertyville, Illinois on January 01, 1980 and passed away on October 01, 2003. He was 23 years old. We will remember Him forever and never say goodbye.
Seneca Charles Miceli was born on New Years Day 1980. It was a very cold New Years Day with outside temperatures of more than thirty degrees below zero. God had gifted Him here on this earth on this special day, as a New Years Day Angel. "Welcome to this very special world, my Son and all it has to offer you".
Seneca had passed away to be with Our Lord on October 1, 2003. He was 23 years old.
Seneca Loved God and his fellow man, family, friends and strangers at times. He would say and do kind gestures to get people to smile to change their outlook. He has left behind many family and friends who will miss him dearly.
The relatives left behind are His immediate Family members, His Mother, Marie, His Father Placito, His Baby Brother, Michael who was four years younger than Him and his best friend, a Baby Sister, Melody, who at the time of His passing was a newborn,two and a half months old. She will never know her brother. She will only know of His Memory. Melody has a Guardian Angel to watch over her and to keep her safe.
Seneca and His only Brother were very close. They were four years apart. Seneca cherished the day His Baby Brother came into His Life at an early age.He was the protector to be there for him and watch over His New Brother. They loved to play together and do the usual things, playing with cars, and toys, later, helping Michael with his homework and being together whether it was just hanging out and talking. Seneca felt it was His duty to give instructions to Michael about everything. He did so in a kind manner and became frustrated when Michael would not cooperate. But He persisted as a loving Big Brother would. As the boys grew into adulthood the Brother realtionship had developed into Best Friends. They were always together when at home, because they wanted to be, not because they had to be. If they had been out with friends they would connect with one another to see how each others day had gone and would want to know the details of the day. They were both caring of one another.
The memories will linger from, the first bicycle and Seneca teaching Michael to ride without training wheels, up until the first car, to thefirst ride in one anothers car. They had alot of First things they shared together. The bond they shared will never be broken. Seneca has imprinted Michael with many positive aspects of loving and friends and being there for one another. I believe He will always be watching over His Brother as He did in His Life.
Seneca is the first Grandchild born on the maternal side. Seneca and His Grandmother Geri were very close and had a special bond with one another. He loved His Grandmother dearly and would try to do the right thing just for her at her advice and words of knowledge, wisdom and guidance. They would do anything for one another to make each other happy. They had a great bond between them.
Seneca is the first Great Grand Child to Juanita and Frank. Nanie and Gramps as they are referred to. He felt a very special Love for them and would just"pop in"frequently to sit and visit with them and to make sure they were safe and healthy and not alone. They were in their nineties. Later, I can recall a time when I got a call from Nanie, his Grandmother, that His Great Grandfather was possibly having a Heart attack at home. I called 911 and Seneca who had heard the conversation was the first out the door and on the scene at their home, even before the paramedics arrived. God must have "carried Him the eight miles to their home to be there for them before help arrived. He was very concerned and just had to be there for them. His Great Grandfather had recovered from the heart attack.
Seneca has an Uncle Larry. Larry was an Uncle to Him, in His younger childhood days. Later in His teen years Uncle Larry became His Friend and they worked together doing construction. They were Best Buddies and enjoyed each others company, whether it came from playing video games together, listening to music, working together or sharing a meal together. Seneca had painted the whole outside of His Uncle Larry's house by himself with no complaints, even while while baking in the heat of the summer. The bond was unique.
Seneca has an Uncle Michael. The relationship for them was of pure fun, relaxation and enjoying one another's company. Uncle Michael has the fun toys they could play together with. Motorcycle, snow mobile and a deluxe speed boat. There were times they went snowmobiling together. And on other occasions would go out on Uncle Michael's deluxe speed boat for a day of fun and sun and enjoy one another. Or taking a ride on Uncle Michael's motorcycle. They brought pure fun and good times to each other.
Seneca would go to tremendous strides to help family and friends. To show His best qualities for caring and Love for one another. Everyone in His eyes were His Best-Friend and treated all that way. He never wanted to see anyone down, struggling or in need. I believe He thought it was His place to bring them up and give them Hope while He was on this earth. To leave His mark and He did just that.
Seneca was a typical boy, loved to be outdoors and running free, full of energy, riding his bicycle, climbing trees and fences, and playing with His friends. He loved the sunshine and fresh air and thrived on it. Seneca looked forward to going to school. He was up and ready to go while the rest of the Family were still deciding what to wear and have for breakfast. He would even be up at the crack of dawn to vacum His bedroom daily. He prided Himself on being punctual and at school to greet His friends. For Him it was not the trudgery associated trudgery associated with school like with some, it was the fellowship of being together and making someone's day for them to bring happiness.
Seneca was Baptized in May of 1980. The Baptism took place at Transfiguration Church with Family members present. Ironically, the Pastor was Reverand Senec. Seneca had made his First Communion at Santa Maria Church. He had taken Caddicism classes weekly. The more He learned about God, the more He wanted to be like God and his kindness, good nature and genuine caring exhibited that.
As a young boy Seneca developed Asthma. Some of the attacks were so intense he was rushed into the hospital quite regularly. Even though he was in a life threatening, critical situation he would still smile and talk to the family. He would smile, so not to worry His Family. For years of bi-weekly shots and daily medication, he would still be active despite His limitations. He later outgrew the asthma in His teen years.
Football season came around. Seneca wanted to join. I resisted because of the asthma. I later gave in with the idea we will check with the Doctor's permission and if approved we will just "try it" and see how you are. After a few days of practice he had gone into a severe attack after doing pushups on the ground with the Team. At the Doctor he was checked for allergies.He was allergic to dirt. The Dr. stated he most likely went into an attack because he was allergic to the dirt and mold spores. Sports were out of the question. He now realized this.
Seneca was a Boy Scout. He enjoyed going to the meetings and participating in activities. It was more of a social thing than earning the awards. That was very important to Him and He prided himself on it. To be there for the other boys, His friends.
Later Seneca had taken swimming lessons. He was fine with the asthma and later outgrew it.
He took life seriously and wanted to succeed. It was measured by His Love of man. Seneca you did more than some will ever be capable of. For that I thank you for, loving All no matter who they are. You brought me, your Mom the greatest gift a Son can give to His Mother. That is how I will remember you. My son, my angel who loved and cared for everyone. You left us with this message. For that I am Grateful.
Seneca has left one step-brother and 2 step-sisters. And many other loving relatives. Space does not allow me to mention, and what he brought to their lives.They will always Love you and your Memory.
Seneca's friends of a lifetime were spectacularly many. From his grade school friends who stood by Him up until His passing. To the Intervention, when they were needed the most by Him. To the casual friend on the street and in the neighborhood who had become His friend seeing the "difference in His personality and wanted to get to know this unique young man.
Seneca had passed away to be with God on October 1, 2003. He was 23 years old.
His Life was cut short by Methadone. Methadone, that he had gotten from someone at work it was prescribed for. He had taken it one time and had died and mixed it with another substance.
Accidental overdose. Cause of Death Acute Respiratory Failure. Due to Methadone consumption.
He fought for four hours to live. While in the Hospital he had "crashed" 6 times and was brought back to Life by Doctor's and nurses. He had wanted to Live. He squeezed my hand gently twice when I asked if He could hear me. He must have known how severe the situation had become in His final moments. An hour later He passed away.
Seneca was my pride and joy. He was my Baby, my Firstborn, my Child and my BestFriend.
No parent should ever have to go through this. This horrible tragedy. As a parent and for my Son, Seneca's Memory, I want to be able to warn and make aware to those struggling with addiction of what the outcome can be. And in general warn others of the potential fatal effects of Methadone and when mixing it with certain other precription medications, substances, or over the counter medications.
This was not Seneca's medication and He should not of had access to the Methadone. Clinics that disperse Methadone require the patient to sign a contract that states the Methadone will be locked up. This was in an unlocked locker.
As Seneca's Mother and a parent I have become a member of "HARMD". "Helping America Reduce Methadone Deaths". Methadone related deaths total 4000 per year in the United States and growing.
Fatalities are a result of illegally buying it from a prescribed user on the streets, prescribed from a physician, the trend in pain management or because of in house clinic drug treatment centers.
I am for tougher restrictions as How Methadone is dispersed. Making the prescribed patient responsible and held liable for this toxic chemical in their hands and the death it may cause due to careless and reckless behavior for selling or improper storage and allowing public access to the Metahdone.
More labeling to make the prescribed user aware of the potential Fatal consequences of mixing Methadone with other things. Letting others be aware someone may be intollerant to Methadone being a first time user and may be Fatal. More control from the Federal Government with tighter new Laws on dispensing Methadone.
I am sending out the message: When mixed with certain other chemicals Methadone can be deadly. Or for the first time user Methadone can prove to be fatal to a user who is not tolerant of Methadone.
It is my own personal belief. Methadone can be used succesfully in the treatment of addiction. If monitored carefully by a qualified physician and clinic. There are over 250, 000 people on Methadone in the United States.
Prior to Losing my Son I had virtually no prior knowledge of Methadone and the deadly consequences it can cause. Methadone can be fatal for a first time user. Or when mixed with any other certain substances, and or illegal drugs. Legal RX Meds. and over the counter medications and cold medications.
Seneca's full story can be seen on: www.RevolutionHealth.com On Home page type in: (Drug Addiction My son died from Methadone).
It was a very diffucult decision to go Public with this, my Son's Story. If it can help save one valuable human Life it would have been His wish.
"HARMD, Helping America Reduce Methadone Deaths"can be found at: www.HARMD.org
"HARMD" is made up of family and friends that have lost children, relatives and friends due to Methadone. Tougher restriction and regulation of Methadone.
There is a petition, "Stop Methadone Deaths, Tougher Restrictions". This petition can be seen at www.thepetitionsite.com
This petition is made up of family and friends that have lost a loved one due to Methadone. Methadone had cut short and ended their Loved ones lives.The Family, Friends on there share a common request for asking Federal Government and the maker of Methadone for Tougher Restriction of Methadone.
My son, Seneca, I will miss you intensely. You brought me the Greatest Love a Mother can have from a Child. I gave all the Love I have for you unconditionally. And I continue to do so daily. Your Spirit will forever remain at my side. You are My Angel beside Me. May God watch over you and others that have passed before you. I choose to Remember the good times that we had in our Family and not the tragedy that cut your Young Life short and should not have happened. The good Family Memories bring me Joy and Love.
Love Mom
--------------------------------------------------------------------------- The Laws of God
Man gives me the Law of Rules to obey by. But, God gave me the Rules of Life to live by. And to die by.
I saw two doves today They were across from the Church at play They were pecking and chasing each other Until they noticed Melody and I together They flew up swiftly to the tree branch There they continued to play pecking at each other I had a hunch, and gazed up at the sky This is a sign to be remembered God is everywhere, you just need to be aware They flew back down as if not to care That we were still there Still playing together pecking and chasing each other Not seeming to care that we were still there
People come into your life for a Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a diffuculty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are. They are for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a SEASON.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime.
Seneca My Son, My baby, My Little Baby Boy In Blue.
You have been gone for a while now. I can count the days one by one. The pain of your Loss still remains. Everyone has moved on in their own way. Your Memory shines through brighter than before. The pain will forever be in our hearts. But now I can see you clearer than before. God has given us the strength and perserverance to see it in a different way than before. Our Love for you will never go away. You are still in our thoughts everyday. Sometimes your Memory comes through in ways of a beautiful sunny day or through the nature of the woods behind our home. I look to the sky and thank God for having been given the strength to see it this way. I continue to use your name Seneca, my son, my Little Baby Boy in Blue to keep your Memory alive and to continue to help me to heal. Acceptance of your loss is now apparent. For that I am Grateful. Thank you God for easing my Soul. "The abscense of your presence is still everywhere". (Big Mike Your Friend) My Little Baby Boy In Blue.
The trees and bushes are starting to have buds and soon they will bloom. These were all planted by your Mom with the Love I have for You. You have been my inspiration, from the great Love You brought me in your Life.
I am sure You are smiling with Love in Your spirit.
Losing my firstborn son, Seneca is a situation a parent cannot even imagine. Seneca, my son was my world. Peace, comfort and healing in part has been given to me and my family, and for the benefit of Seneca, by enrolling Seneca and his living family members into the Purgatorian Archconfraternity.
There have been many people that have been very supportive and loving through this diffucult time. Words alone cannot express my gratitude.
The Purgatorian Archconfraternity is at The Golgotha Monastery. It is there, that The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass is offered daily for the relief of the Poor Souls in Purgatory and for living family members that have come to be enrolled.
The Purgatorian Archconfraternity is at a place that is located in Scotland, on a far off island, The Island of Papa Stronsay in the Orkney Islands. It is there, that 25 Traditional Catholic Monks, by the name of The Transalpine Redemptorists, Pray The Holy Sacrifice of the Mass daily for the benefit of our loved ones, the deceased and for the living family members. The Transalpine Redemptorists have dedicated their lives to Our Lord and The Blessed Virgin Mary and to Praying for the souls of the deceased, our loved ones and other family members.
Mass is said there daily for my son, Seneca and for my family through enrollment and for many others. The Rosary is recited every Monday for Seneca and others.
It has given me peace, that my son, Seneca is being held up in Prayer daily, and his Soul may be in Heaven with Our Lord.
The Purgatorian Archconfraternity is for everyone Catholic and Non-Catholic.
The Power of Prayer is amazing.
My Prayers and Thank You go to The Transalpine Redemptorist Monks for dedicating their lives to our Lord and The Blessed Virgin Mary and for Praying for Our loved ones, the deceased. Thank you.
Through this diffuclut time it has been a Blessing from God to have come to the Purgatorian Archconfraternity. The Purgatorian Archonfraternity was referred to me by a good friend, who has been a Godsend.
It is something one may consider for the benefit of our loved ones, and for the comfort and Blessings that may come from the Power of Prayer.
His legacy
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